It was suppose to arrive on the 14th ( I thought it was the 24th for some reason ) I'm just now realizing it still says in transit, hasn't moved since the 10th. I went to contact the seller but they don't exist anymore, safe to say I got scammed?

Just file an "item not received" claim and you will get refunded.

Item never arrived, seller is now "no longer a registered user" | Buying

Item never arrived, seller is now "no longer a registered user" | Buying | eBay Community