I really enjoy selling on ebay and I do not overprice my items or shipping. But all it takes is one

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rude buyer to undo ALL the good feelings I have about this venue. And it will affect me for DAYS. I was actually threatened - THREATENED! - if I didn't give a full refund immediately that I would be reported as lying about my items and banned from selling. I have NEVER lied. And I did not list this item as "New with tags" but "never used." And that is the honest to God truth. â˜¹ï¸ But because of this person's threat, I've taken most of my items down and only have the few I gave offers on. Once...

gosimus · Answer

@dzdishong < because of this person's threat, I've taken most of my items down . . . I don't think I want to return > Good grief, don't let some stranger essobee have that kind of power over you. I completely agree with comics; don't wilt so fast. < that I would be reported as lying about my items and banned from selling > That threat is just hot air, but you don't have to take my word for it. Pick a seller, any seller, and report him as lying to see how long it takes eBay to ban him from selling. Don't hold your breath, because eBay will ignore your complaint about him, just the same as eBay will ignore some weirdo's complaint about you.

comics-scifi-collectibles · Answer

@dzdishong Sorry that you had a bad buyer that was so rude to you.

Don't let them upset you so much and take up space in your head. They can only upset you that much if you give them permission to do so. This is a method of dealing with life that I learned many years ago after counseling.

Giving up and canceling your listings just because of this very mean buyer is a reaction that would make them happy.

Add the buyer to your blocked list so they can't message or buy from you anymore> https://www.ebay.com/bmgt/BuyerBlock

If they filed a return request case let me known so I can offer advice on the best way to handle it.