How do you handle feedback for a nice item that doesn't fit that you can not return

Question

This is the second time in a month I ordered and received a very nice item, price and shipping fine, but it doesn't fit. (European size handmade shoes, and a vintage coat)

For the shoes I gave a neutral review but said the item was nice and I learned in that brand what size to try next. But it was a lot more money for the coat and based on the size shown it should fit. But it is older so perhaps sizes were a different scale. How do I appropriately rate the seller?

lady_madonna · Accepted Answer

Since the seller has no connection with the item not fitting, you can leave positive feedback or don't leave any feedback at all.

dust19 · Answer

I find the harassing emails from ebay to send feedback exceptionally annoying. While I understand the connection to Positive Feedback and all the rules and fees ebay puts on sellers, feedback remains an option from the buyer, not a requirement. Thanks