Haven't got my tranfer from a member

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Hello, I bought to be exact (seven) pairs of jeans from an ebay member, but canceled my order and asked for a refund, the seller was kind and sent the refund order directly to his (her) manager, as he did it I waited for another 24hrs, but the refund didn't arrived, I sent to seller multiple emails about my refund, and he asked kindly to wait for it until it shows up to my paypal account, but foreign's bank accounts stop making refunds/ payments from today till monday,

What am I suppose to do next? I thought that ebay was a fair place to do shopping, instead of getting scammed by a seller, I also forgot to mention that it was about three days ago since he promised to me that he will make a refund to my paypal account from his manager

bad english- I also do know that it is embarrassing to come and show up at/ public with this problem, but it may be a large amount of money, the shipping handles, and the price... I let you guys know how it ends up.